4 Ways To Include Self Care Into Your Busy Lifestyle

It seems like everyone is busy rushing around these days and not taking a breather to take proper care of themselves.

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One moment you're dashing out of bed to get the ready for the morning, and the next you're on the commute to work, trying desperately to remember the legion of tasks you have to complete during your time at work and beyond.

You might have a busy social life too, with friends and family members to catch up with on a fairly regular basis. And you might busy yourself with other things during the week, be that your household chores, your garden maintenance, and any hobbies or group meetings that you regularly partake in.

And while there is nothing wrong with a busy lifestyle per se, you do need to be mindful. If you rarely stop and catch your breath (figuratively and literally), you will start to feel the consequences of a busy lifestyle within your health. Feelings of stress and anxiety might become a norm, and you might fall prey to the ensuing side-effects, such as high blood pressure, exhaustion, and depression. 

So, finding ways to include self-care into your busy lifestyle is a must.

These suggestions might be useful to you.

#1: Make time for yourself in the morning

Establish a morning regimen before your busy day begins.

Take the time to eat a healthy breakfast, because this is infinitely better than grabbing a cookie from the jar when you're rushing out of your front door.

You should then take some time out to exercise, be that with a walk or a run around the block, or even by exercising in your living room by doing some yoga or stretching. These home exercise ideas might prove useful. 

Then spend some time in thought and reflection in your meditation space. This will give you time to find some semblance of inner peace and will provide your body and mind with the much-needed rest required before your day's activities begin.

By taking these steps, you will start the day the right way. Rather than feeling rushed and stressed, you should feel calmer and better prepared for whatever it is you will be busying yourself with throughout the day.

#2: Schedule time for yourself

No matter what else you have going on during the week, find places on your calendar for me-time, and put a large red ring around the times you have chosen. 

And if you can't find time for yourself? Maybe you simply have too much going on? 

Then remember that your health matters first and foremost. There are bound to be things within your schedule that hold less priority in your life, so ask yourself: 

Do I really need to attend every meeting I have scheduled? 

Do I need to attend every social engagement that I have been invited to? 

The answer is probably 'no,' so if you need to cross things off your calendar in favour of me-time, then do so. Then be sure to say 'no' to any other activity that might distract you from your personal needs, unless there is a significant reason as to why you might need to move your me-time to another date.

And if you have a family to consider? Set boundaries for yourself if they are in the same house as you, and let them know that you need some time to yourself. Or take time out for yourself when they are involved in after-school activities or otherwise engaged. You might bring in an extended family member to look after them occasionally too. 

And when you do have time for yourself, don't busy yourself with housework or with any other types of strenuous activity. Instead, catch up with your Netflix boxsets, pamper yourself at your beauty table, go for a gentle walk, read a book, or do anything else that will give you time to refresh yourself. You will feel better by doing so.

#3: Book your health appointments

When did you last see your doctor? And when did you last see your optician and dentist? You need to make these appointments a priority if your health is suffering in any way, but even if you are feeling fine, you should still see your local health professionals for a check-up. If anything is wrong, they should be able to remedy any health issues you are experiencing.

So, despite your busyness, make the time for these appointments. Arrange for them before or after work, or let your employer know that you might need to take some time out of the workplace. 

Of course, if your employer provides occupational healthcare services, you should take advantage of what is on offer. Your boss should encourage you to anyway, but there is nothing wrong with booking an appointment yourself on a fairly regular basis or when you feel it necessary. 

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#4: Live a healthy lifestyle throughout the day

You can still live a healthy lifestyle despite your busy day, so take the necessary steps to care for your wellbeing.

So, rather than driving or taking the bus to work, you might walk or cycle instead in your lifestyle ensues.

Rather than eating on the go when you're busy at work, take time out to rest, opting for a healthy lunch rather than something from the local fast food joint.

Find other opportunities to exercise throughout the day, perhaps by going for a short walk during your break times and/or taking part in exercises at your desk. You might also visit the gym before you go home or book yourself into a dance or fitness class.

And during the evening, resist the urge to do too much with your time. By adhering to one of our previous points, you might have scheduled time for yourself already. But even if you do have family and friends to consider, try to find relaxing things to do with them, instead of busying yourself with activities that could tire you out. 

Finally, remember to go to bed at a reasonable time. A good night's sleep has many health benefits, on both a physical and a mental level, so get your shut-eye, as you will then be able to return to the first point on this list when you wake in the morning.

Take care of yourself and remember you come first! Leave a comment below and let us know how you can implement one thing to help improve your self care no matter how small!


4 Ways To Live A More Relaxed Lifestyle

There are probably many people that you meet that are either a) too busy or b) too stressed. More than likely a combination of both. Often our lifestyles are made to be hectic. We work the majority of the day, even if we are freelancers or small business owners. And the rest of the time is spent looking after the family, running errands, finishing work that you had to take home, trying to see people and on it goes. 


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It is a lot by any measure. 

The focus has shifted on being as busy as you can for as long as possible to try to find a work-life balance that makes you feel good and avoiding building stress levels. Trying to live more relaxed is better for you and your family in the long run. Stressed out people often have mood swings, can be tired and may go on to develop depression or anxiety. Negativity can quickly become overwhelming. So here are some tips to help you relax your lifestyle and inject some calm - quickly. 

Remove

It is time to start saying no to the things that you feel like you can’t do, or that you know will bring you a lot of stress. We find saying yes so easy. Piling on extra work, social commitments, financial commitments, but there is only so much you can do. And if you are saying yes to everything you might just be hitting your breaking point. Learn to say no, remove the things that are a source of stress for you. It might be difficult if the stress is people, but it is better for you in the long run. Start by removing distractions that are taking up your precious time such as social media. Learn to limit things that don’t bring value to your life as well and you will quickly realize how much more time you have to make room for self care.

Therapies

You don’t have to head out and book the first talking therapist you find, but it might pay to investigate some ways that you can learn to relax and unwind. Often they are referred to as alternative therapies and come in the form of things like working with a yoga teacher, an acupuncturist, or a life coach. Book a special spa treatment. Finding different more natural ways of relaxing can be invigorating and exciting as there are so many different options out there that you may not even know about!

Meditation

At first, many people find meditating a little bit boring, or they can’t quite settle. Over time, after it gets built into your daily life, meditation will be something you want to do, not something you feel like you have to. It will teach you ways that you can quiet your mind, which means you can slide intrusive thoughts, and negative thoughts off to the side and replace them with positive ones. Over time this will make a difference to your thought pattern in general. Plus, those ten minutes that you spend will go by in a flash. Headspace is an excellent application for you to start your meditation journey, and Calm is another option. Meditation could also just be free writing and journaling or laying down and listening to some spa music while breathing deeply. Try whatever works for you!

Problem Solving

We, by nature, love to solve problems. But sometimes we see issues where there aren’t any. So sit down and think about what you deem to be your problems. Once they are all written down, see how you can reframe them. For example, is the bus stop moving further away from a bad thing, or is it allowing you to get your daily steps in? You parents flying in for the weekend - problem? Or an opportunity to try that recipe you’ve been waiting to try? We often build issues up to be much bigger, because we aren’t used to more positive thinking. 

Relaxing your lifestyle will give you breathing space to get back to the stuff you love, and maybe introduce you to some new hobbies too!

Leave a comment down below and let me know how you plan on incorporating one of these tips into living a more relaxed lifestyle or if you already do incorporate one, how has it changed your perspective or life?



Three Easy Ways to Maintain Your Motivation For a Healthy Lifestyle

It’s no big secret that maintaining a healthy lifestyle at times can be fairly difficult. It’s hard to stay motivated and it can be hard to resist the temptation to slip into a bad routine. It can be far too easy to slip into a cycle of bad eating and no exercise which isn't good for your bodies. It’s really important that we try our hardest to stay motivated. You shouldn’t start beating yourself up though if you do this is a sure-fire way to end up falling completely off the wagon. 


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Have a look below at some of the ways you can help to keep you motivated with your healthy lifestyle: 

Pay Attention To Your Routine

It can often be the case that mixing up your routine can be the answer to maintaining your focus and keeping you on track with your healthy lifestyle. Regularly changing or swapping around your routine is almost as important as making sure you have one set in place. Once you've been set in a routine for a while it can be really easy to fall out of it and that’s because we get bored. Having a routine doesn't necessarily mean that you should be following the same one every day it can mean that you are keeping on top your health care. Making sure you have all your important medical info on you, knowing important phone numbers and knowing where the nearest urgent care and hospital is just as important to include in your routine. 

Make It Interesting

You know that exercise is an important part of a healthy lifestyle, but at times it can be boring. Nobody wants to feel bored so it's not surprising that many people lose their motivation for a healthy lifestyle purely for the fact that their exercise routine is boring and mundane. You should be trying to do exercises that you find motivational and fun at the same time. So if going for a morning swim isn't for you, find something that you do enjoy. Try a few new things until you find something that you know you can really sink your teeth into. Some examples could include yoga, dancing or even kickboxing.

Include Your Friends And Family

A brilliant way to help with your motivation is to not be doing it on your own. Turning your healthy lifestyle into a group activity that you and your friends or family can do together will be sure to keep you on the right track. You’re able to share different ideas, give each the push that you might need and encourage each other to try something new. Whether it's trying new foods or a new exercise class, there is something more motivational about doing it together than alone that is powerful. If you have children it’s not only a good idea to promote a healthy lifestyle and encourage exercise for them it will also help with your willpower, and keeping healthy will mean you are able to more exciting activities too. 

Do you have any other ways to keep up your motivation when it comes to a healthy lifestyle?

Please share them in the comments section below!